Cancel culture, non-binaryism, speciesism, lesbian, sex work, disability, motherhood, coming out, community... These are just some of the words we use to explain our society, those that sometimes exist and many others misunderstand us. We tried to de-define them together with expert and counter-current voices with which to choose the words for the future, thus creating a partial - or perhaps remain provisional - but solid "community primer"... It is a call, for everyone: to de-define , inventing a new conceptual map of language, conquering a territory not to subjugate it, but to reveal it as boundless thanks to our desire. And in which to find, everyone, repair.